An Oathing Stone Ceremony

An Oathing Stone Ceremony honours Celtic heritage, but is obviously not limited to couples with a Celtic heritage. An Oathing Stone symbolises the lasting power of weddings vows.

In this ceremony, the couple holds or touches a special stone while reciting their vows, grounding their promises in the physical world and symbolising their connection to each other, their ancestors, and the earth.

In terms of SYMBOLISM, the Oathing Stone represents permanence, strength, and grounding.

By holding the stone while reciting vows, the couple makes their promises “set in stone” representing a lasting commitment.

The stone physically represents a strong foundation for the couple’s future, and for those lovers of the environment, it represents a connection between them and the natural world as they start their married life together.

How do I choose an Oathing Stone?

Some couples choose a stone from a location that holds significance to both of them. This could be from a favourite hiking spot, a family property, or even the beach where they got engaged.

In the interests of the ceremony, make sure you choose a stone that’s comfortable to hold together, or if you’re choosing a larger stone, it can be placed in front of you on a small table, but ensure it’s a size that’s visually meaningful yet manageable.

Many couples engrave the stone with their names, wedding date, or a meaningful symbol. This personalisation makes the stone a lasting keepsake.

An Oathing Stone Ceremony often reflects themes of permanence, connection, and unity. 

Adding  personal touches to an Oathing Stone ceremony, and what happens afterwards?

• For the ceremony have the stone engraved with your names, wedding date, or a Celtic symbol like the Claddagh or Trinity knot.
• To get guests involved during the ceremony, invite close family members or all guests to grab a stone and hold it during the ceremony. Have a bowl full to pick from.
• A short reading about unity, strength, or ancestry adds depth to the ritual. A family member or close friend could share this during the ceremony.
• After their wedding, many couples display the Oathing Stone in their home, either on a shelf or in a garden, as a reminder of their vows.
• Consider re-using the stone for anniversary celebrations as a way to reconnect with the promises you made.